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The Needs Discovery
Worksheet

His & Hers Personal Assessment — Emotional · Physical · Spiritual · Relational

"Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others." — Philippians 2:4

What This Is

Purpose of This Worksheet

Most couples experience unmet needs not because their spouse does not care — but because those needs were never clearly identified or expressed. This worksheet gives each spouse a private, structured space to honestly score and rank what they need most across four essential dimensions of marriage: emotional, physical, spiritual, and relational.

Complete your section privately. Then come together, share your answers, and let the conversation that follows change how your marriage functions.

How to Use These Worksheets

1
Download your individual section — Husband downloads his, Wife downloads hers.
2
Complete your section privately and honestly before sharing anything with your spouse.
3
Rate each need from 1 to 10. Mark your Top 3 in each category.
4
Come together, share your completed worksheets, and discuss with curiosity — not judgment.

Your Downloads

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Husband's Section

Personal Assessment · 10 Pages

Emotional, Physical, Spiritual, and Relational needs — rated, ranked, and reflected on privately before sharing with your spouse.

↓ Download — Husband's Section
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Wife's Section

Personal Assessment · 10 Pages

Emotional, Physical, Spiritual, and Relational needs — rated, ranked, and reflected on privately before sharing with your spouse.

↓ Download — Wife's Section

"Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her."

— Ephesians 5:25
Lloyd Allen

Lloyd Allen

Marriage Educator · Family Coach · Theologian

Trained as a Marriage and Family Therapist at Barry University, Lloyd Allen is the founder of Fixing Marriage Academy, Inc. and the voice behind MrMarriage.com. With 30 years of experience, he helps couples identify what they need, communicate it clearly, and build the marriages God designed them to have.